BRACED FOR INDEPENDENCE

Vulnerability became dangerous when your family couldn't afford for you to have needs 🏰. You built an impressive fortress of self-reliance, becoming someone who can handle anything life throws at you without missing a beat 💪. Your independence is genuine strength—you're resourceful, capable, and never a burden to others. People admire how you seem to have everything together. But beneath this fortress lies an unmet longing for connection and care that feels too risky to acknowledge 💔. Asking for help triggers shame: "I should handle this alone" echoes like a mantra from childhood when you had no other choice. You've become so good at not needing anyone that you've forgotten how to let yourself be needed by someone who genuinely wants to care for you.