Explore Survivor Love Styles

What’s Your Survivor Love Style?

Our quiz analyzes how traumatic childhood experiences may have shaped how you show up in your relationships

Relationship Role

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THE RESCUER

Strength: Skilled at caring for others

Weakness: Drawn to dysfunction, loses self

Never knowing if you'd come home to the loving parent or volatile and completely changed individual 🎃, you became a master at reading the room. Your worth came from being useful to them, from being the one who could spot trouble coming and smooth things over 👐 before they got worse. Your ability to care for others and see what people need is genuinely remarkable 💪. It saved your family from even more trouble.

Yet somewhere along the way, you learned that love means healing others’ toxicity, that loyalty is proven by how much of your partner's dysfunction you can tolerate. Now you find yourself drawn to people who need rescuing 🏥, because what else would anyone need you for?

This trauma survivor love style may develop as an adaptation to difficult childhood experiences. Below are 77 relevant experiences:

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